Ipsy is a monthly subscription that sends you samples and full size items that are beauty related. Each month your items come in a cute little bag! This subscription is $10 a month and well worth it. Some examples of things I’ve received in the past: nail polish, mascara, eye shadow, eye liner, lipstick, dry shampoo, hair ties, and so forth. You can also review your items and earn points. You can turn in your points to get additional products.
My father was my everything. He was my mother, my father, my best friend. While we grew closer after my Mom and brother both died in 1992, from the very beginning I was a Daddy’s girl. My earliest memories are of us on adventures together – fishing, camping, him teaching me about the world. Few days would go by as a kid that I don’t remember my Dad pointing out some kind of plant and explaining to me what it was and all about its purpose. While my brother would run away from most things in nature, I would be the one found picking up crabs, holding opossums and petting porcupines under my Dad’s watchful eye (yes, you can pet them if they aren’t scared).
In the summer of 2005 my Dad starting getting a few strange symptoms. Nothing major but also things that niggle at you and, if you were insured, something you would have probably sought treatment at a doctor’s office for. However, my Dad was an electrician and his union had some really goofy rules and he wasn’t eligible for the insurance because he hadn’t worked enough hours that year due to layoffs to qualify for their insurance. He scoffed it off and just hoped things would get better. The sore throat was probably just sinus drainage after all and the aches and pains were just age.
By the spring of 2006 his symptoms had come and gone but whenever they returned they were much, much worse. However, this coincided with my future niece coming to the house while having strep throat so again, my Dad wrote it off and just hoped it wasn’t strep and didn’t get worse. By late May he was sweating when he ate and sleeping more and I finally told him he HAD to see a doctor.
It’s easier said than done though – turns out most doctors won’t even see you if you don’t have insurance. Eventually I called my doctor and begged him to take my father. He agreed and we went the next day. However, the news was not good. I was brought back and Dr. Davis looked at me and said that my Dad asked him to tell me because he couldn’t. My Dad had cancer, it was likely terminal and he didn’t have long to live. He had a tumor in his throat about the size of a grapefruit and it was likely to only grow in size cutting off his airway and killing him.
Needless to say, I teared up even though I KNEW it wasn’t good and he let us have a moment. Dad couldn’t stop apologizing and kept saying that he knew it wasn’t good but he didn’t think it was that bad. He kept saying he wished he’d had insurance so he had gone sooner. It was too far gone for treatment at that point but even IF we wanted to, we were told that now my Dad couldn’t likely get insurance due to the cancer now being pre-existing. Even though he had money, as many know, treatment for cancer doesn’t come cheap and it’s unlikely he’d have been able to even afford the scans to get to treatment.
My doctor took pity on us and called in some favors. We were able to see an ear, nose and throat specialist for the office fee only who ordered scans and tests of my Dad. Those scans were written off. They confirmed what we knew – he had tonsillar cancer (primary) which had spread to his brain, liver and lungs. From there he was admitted into hospice (again, for free as a favor) where he was able to get weekly visits from a nurse and pain medication to see him through the rest of his life.
If it wasn’t for my wonderful doctor, none of the very little that was able to be done for my Dad would have happened because he was without insurance.
My father died 2 months after diagnosis. We were told had it been caught in the early “sore throat” phase he would have likely lived. They remove the tonsil/s that are infected and if it had progressed a round of chemo. Even if he’d caught it a month or two earlier, he still may have lived. Instead the fear of costs he couldn’t afford and the lack of healthcare options for the uninsured left him home and hoping it was just a cold.
I plead and beg of anyone reading to take a moment and think of the amazing man I lost due to the lack of healthcare before the ACA. This is currently a thing of the past and I’ve read hundreds of stories online about people who were able to live because of the ACA. It may not be perfect but it’s saving LIVES and that, my friends, is a big deal that shouldn’t be tossed to the wayside just because it needs improved.
I haven’t updated this blog in forever. I think it’s because I really have no niche so to say so I just kept putting it off because I’m fucking random so, the blog has been. Well, random or not, I’m back and shall continue with the randomness. *shrugs* Go with what you know right?
2015 was a weird and wild year for me. It was my first year in many during which I did not require surgery for my endometriosis (since 2007 I think I’ve had at least 6 surgeries for it, some twice in a year) so it was weird not having to plan downtime or sessions around my recovery. I outed a photographer on my other blog, Photo Stealers, and that was an adventure to say the least. My business was steady with sessions and weddings but overall it was down from the years prior. Luckily though, 2016 is on track to be the best year yet for my business. I traveled, of course, and found a new favorite destination in St. John. I took a few girls trips as well and I have decided that this needs to be a yearly thing. Overall 2015 was a good year but by New Years I was ready to say goodbye to it.
During my downtime this season I’ve thought about what to do with this blog. To nuke it? To totally change it up and go forth with a niche? There’s so many things I want to write about. My endometriosis journey. My travel and places that I love. BOOKS! My subscription box addition (I’ve unsubscribed to almost all but PopSugar but I can’t quit it!). My undying love for all things bath related. So screw it, I’m going to just be me and write about ALL the things and screw the niche mindset that to be a blogger one must have a cultivated voice and message. It’s not like I’m ever going to be one of those people anyway – I’m not skinny enough nor do I have enough boots.
So, hi. If you’re reading this (which I do not know if people still are!) thank you for hanging with me!
PS: I’ve renamed my blog to something a bit more catchy since the old name was just something grabbed at will. Yes, I really do hate coffee but yes, I also do love Starbucks. The cream blended frappuccinos are the best thing ever.
In the past few months there’s a new MLM that a ton of friends have been selling – Jamberry Nails. If you know me, you’d know that my nails are almost always polished and you may notice they are fake. Sadly beautiful long nails are something I wasn’t naturally gifted with so for almost 20 years I’ve been getting a manicure every two weeks and thankfully I now have the long beautiful nails that most wish they naturally had. My nail beds are very short so with my natural nails my fingers look stumpy but with long nails they don’t look quite so… manly. Anyway, a friend started selling Jamberry and I ordered some strips because I thought it’d be a fun change for the second week of my manicure and for holidays as my nail tech doesn’t do much nail art and I fail miserably at it.
The wraps arrived and I sat down to give them a whirl.. and quickly found out that they were nowhere near as easy as people make them out to be. Maybe after a few whirls they are easy but the first time is anything but. So if you’ve ended up here somehow because you’ve googled something along the lines of “Is Jamberry nails impossible to put on or am I just a moron” don’t fret, they are tricky. I figured that I MUST have started with the hardest ones to put on (the glitter ones) and tried again but with just the regular “Neptune” striped pattern that is supposed to be the easiest to put on. While they were better, I still experienced some wrinkling. To some or maybe most this wouldn’t be an issue. I’m a picker though and those little wrinkles grabbing on each hair, catching on my clothes and so forth? THEY DROVE ME NUTS. I couldn’t do it and within a day I’d taken them back off.
I watched a million videos. I read a dozen blogs. I tried the baggie method. I tried the cold method. I tried the rice method. NO dice. I thought that I was just seriously inept and a total loser at life because reps that saw my whining on Instagram were telling me it was IMPOSSIBLE that I wouldn’t be able to get the wrinkles out and I just wasn’t doing something right. I just wasn’t using enough heat. I wasn’t using the right tools. I wasn’t using the right application method. I wasn’t getting rid of ALL of the oil. I was touching something before putting them on. My heat wasn’t strong enough. I didn’t apply enough pressure. It went on and on from there. It frustrated me because it’s not like I didn’t want them to work, I really and truly did. I think they are adorable and even though they aren’t cheap they are fun! I was looking forward to the holiday wraps and having something a bit more festive than my usual OPI Dear Santa manicure. I’m totally their “niche” market and I was seriously bummed that it didn’t work for my nails. You know what it did work on? My toes.
When I realized that they were PERFECT on my toes I realized there were a few things stacked against my fake nails. One – I have rounded tips so the wrinkles at the tips were inevitable. Cutting a notch seems to HELP but it wasn’t a cure all. Two – my nails are not only rounded at the tip but they are rounded from root to tip AND rounded from edge to edge. Most with fake nails will have this from the layers of gel and acrylic – it’s just how they are applied. Some will have flatter nails but mine are far from flat. Three – they aren’t as “grabby” as a natural nail would be. They are slicker and don’t have ridges. Scuffing them up a bit seemed to help but they didn’t make them perfect. It did also seem to help to cut notches in the sides as well.
I still think they are cute – and I will use them on my toes a lot. It’s nice to not have chipped toenail polish anymore! No more taking along the bottle of polish along on travels and praying the polish doesn’t come undone in the luggage! YAY! I seem to be able to go 6-8 weeks per pedicure which is great! I may even try a manicure again for special occasions and events and try to stop myself from picking at the wrinkles.
I feel like the last person to get the Pop Sugar Must Have box this month! I accidentally fell into a spoiler (I try to avoid them if I can) and wasn’t too excited for the box but now that it’s here I’m a bit happier about it.
The Must Have May Box included the following products for a grand total of $115.00
Smell Bent, St. Tropez scent $45
Zing Anything, Citrus Zinger in green $17
Kerry Cassill, Eye Mask (not pictured because I forgot I took it out of the box), blue floral $24
Obsessive Compulsive Cosmetics, nail lacquer in Pool Boy $10
Must Have Fitness, Tone it Up! $15
Hi I’m Skinny Sticks, Sweet Onion $4
I’m not listing it with the rest (but it’s in the picture) but I received a vbeaute’ Lip Spread Anti-Aging Lip Gloss($19) along with my May box as an apology for how long the Resort box took to ship. I don’t know what is in these types of lip stuff but generally I get blisters from them (got it from the Julep one and the Jouer kind). I’m going to try it and see what happens because I’m a glutton for punishment (and I LOVE my lip gloss!).
I immediately sprayed the St. Tropez and I am still on the fence on if I like it or not. I do but it’s pretty strong. We’ll see what I think of it as it mellows out. I’ve received the zinger thing before and it got banished to a closet and I’ve not seen it since. I like the idea of it but actual DOING is a different ballgame sometimes LOL. I will toss the eye mask in with my travel stuff, they can come in handy when traveling! The polish is OK but I hate creme polishes so this will probably hit the donation bag. I always aspire to do the workout stuff but rarely DO it so we’ll see on the DVD. I’ve had some flaring of the endometriosis this week (fun!) so I’m not really in the active mood right now. I’m allergic to onions so I won’t be able to try the skinny sticks (sad!) but I’m betting my husband will chow them down.
It’s been a while hasn’t it?? Crap. I suck at blogging. I think I feel bad because this blog doesn’t have a “focus” or a “niche” really and it’s just me spitting out random shit at people. Since I couldn’t figure out my focus, I just abandoned it. I’m going to try to get back into the swing of things and embrace my non-niche-ness. I’m getting back on the wagon with a post about one of my favorite things, beauty boxes! I’m starting off with the Pop Sugar Must Have Resort Special Edition. I have a love/hate relationship with the Special Edition boxes from Pop Sugar. I really liked last Summer’s box so I was hoping for the best with this one. I’m still kind of meh on it. Their monthly boxes are also hit or miss but April’s box was out of the park awesome (I loved it so much I didn’t pause for a picture before diving in).
The Must Have Summer Box included the following products for a grand total of ~ $476.50.
Sisco Berluti Bracelet Stack, Pop Sugar Exclusive ~$176
RB of McD Clutch, Tan and Navy ~$150
Cuyana Turkish Towel, blue and white $55
Epicuren Tropical Lave ~ $37
Clark’s Botanicals Cellular Moisture Mist $28
Smashbox Santigolden Age Double-Ended Limitless Eye Liner, yellow/blue $24
Salty Road Salt Water Taffy, Salty Caramel Apple $6.50
I had to guess on some values due to the sites being down or the item being an exclusive (clutch, bracelet). It’s one of the higher valued boxes I think Pop Sugar has ever released but it doesn’t make my joy level rise really. The towel was the teaser item that they used to bait people with when advertising the box and I’m OK with it. I’m not really sure how one would really use it though – it doesn’t seem very towel like, it’s too big to be a scarf and too thin to be a blanket. It’s a odd item for sure. Maybe I’m just not fancy enough for it? The bracelet stack I like and I’m so glad it’s not Bauble Bar or Style Mint. THANK GOD! The clutch came in two colors and I think both are OK, the leather is like butter and is amazingly soft. I’m not sure I’ll really use it though but I’ll have a think on it before I decide what to do with it. The tropical lave smells AMAZING. I love everything Epicuren I’ve received so far and I’m sure this will be enjoyable. I love all bath products! The cellular mist is OK but the tingling is WEIRD. We shall see if it makes me break out in hives or not. The eye liner is what I absolutely HATE from this box. I’m too old for bright blue or yellow eyeliner. I want to try the taffy but I am supposed to avoid all soy (I have endometriosis) so I’m really bummed. Maybe I’ll just try a small piece. Sigh.
Jordan Knight in Cincinnati 6/25/13 © Corey Ann Balazowich
I don’t even know where to begin with this one, I really don’t. I am writing this blog because SO MANY people keep asking me WTF happened last night and Twitter’s character limit just can’t contain it all.
I’m a huge NKOTB fan, if you know me, you know this. Even still, people from elementary school remember my epic crush on Joe (I just can’t with the Joey LOL) and ask me on Facebook if I “know” that they are back together and touring. I’ve met them a few times and while there’s always bumps in the road when it comes to meet and greets and after parties, nothing has ever been an epic of a fail as this, to the point where I’m being a bitch and writing a blog about it.
Last night I attended the NKOTB “The Package” Tour concert in Cincinnati, which is a 4 + hour drive for me in my home base of North Canton, Ohio. Generally I go to the Cleveland concerts but I had obligations that day and the Cincy date worked out best for my friends and I. We had front row seats and had an absolute blast during the show, which is amazing and I highly recommend to all women from the 90’s. I will smile for a long time due to memories from that show. What wasn’t so great was the insane heat in the arena, which is not remotely anyone’s fault but the US Bank Arena, but it was beyond hot. I went to a concert a few years ago at Blossom, which was 90 something degrees and a million percent humidity but it was cooler than this! I heard that the a/c units broke down due to the heat outside but I can’t say for sure that’s what happened. Still, despite being a hot and sweaty mess, we still had so much fun because of what a fantastic show that Boyz II Men, 98 Degrees (ironic, no?), and New Kids On the Block put on for us. It was especially special because it was 98 Degrees hometown show and Drew Lachey’s family was right in front of us and it was utterly charming to watch his little kiddos watch Daddy on stage and be completely enthralled with the experience.
I had purchased After Party tickets for me and my 2 friends because I wanted to go and I wanted to surprise my friends with the gifts. They were SO excited and it was one girl’s birthday and she cried when she realized what my text meant. Neither had ever met any of the New Kids and were SO excited to go to the After Party. We all knew the pictures would be fast and NOT a meet and greet but we were looking forward to the mingling and fun of the After Party which from all other reports, was a great time. We got checked in after the concert and waited in line and quickly found out that the humidity in the room was worse than anything in the arena but we purchased some waters ($3.75 a pop, told none was available from the tap for free) and prepared for a fun evening dancing and enjoying some hopeful “facetime” with Donnie and maybe a straggling New Kid or two. We were happy to hear that Donnie, Danny, Joe and Jordan were in attendance along with Boyz II Men.
The picture line moved quickly and we were told to get into groups of 4 or more and we ended up with 6 in our group, which was fine because no one was too particular about who they were with. When it was our time to go, we were shoved in, found a spot, smiled and said a quick hi to whomever we were by and left. That’s what we expected though so it was what it was, I do not have a single iota of an issue with how the picture taking went. We were more looking forward to the mingling afterwards with Donnie and just having fun. After the line was over, Donnie took the stage and begged us to all take a step back from the end where the “stage” area was with DJ Cheapshot and make sure everyone had breathing room b/c he didn’t want anyone to get sick and how he would be around to everyone so don’t rush in. Joe got up and did a toast to everyone and a few other “Joe-isms.” Shawn finished out the speeches with something I couldn’t hear but more about just having fun and not trying to all turn into a mob rushing them. All three led us to believe they were going to be mingling and so long as we didn’t act a fool, they’d be around to us all. We were towards the back so it was hard to see. The next song I saw Jordan shaking his groove to barely through the crowd and then I just had fun in my corner assuming they were saying hi to people and just not visible. Then I realized I didn’t see any men during the next song and stood up on a chair to figure out what was going on and then I realized there was NO men (well the men we paid to party with). Donnie was gone – everyone was gone. There was a curtain to the side of the “stage” where people were coming in and out of but never to come back out? Donnie and the rest of the crew.
Here’s the thing: I get it was a swamp in that hot box of a room. I get that only Donnie is on the party as the host and therefore the only one obligated to be there. If I were the other guys, I’d probably have peaced out too. Jonathan is a wise man. Hell, I am JEALOUS they didn’t have to stay in that sauna for an additional 2 hours like we did because that was really miserable. I still have a headache. However as the host, I really wish Donnie would have given us the respect to let us know that they were miserable, exhausted and just couldn’t do the party as they’d hoped. Heck, if he wasn’t man enough to do it without fear of lynching, send out some paid minion to tell us what was going on. Instead we waited for two hours in that soup – the a/c was broken is the rumor – for guys that left not long after the pictures were completed. People were getting headaches, people were not feeling well and water was not cheap. Donnie, why in the world did you leave us up there on false hopes when you KNEW the conditions up there? I just do not get it. Johnny kept telling people they were coming back so everyone stayed on, until the bitter and quiet end where DJ Cheapshot ended his tunes and started silently cleaning up. Not a single word from anyone as to what the ever loving fuck just happened. Ironically, I think our “party” was one of the latest ones, ending around 1:45AM.
Shit happens, it’s kind of a motto in my life. It was proven when after that epic failure of an After Party I walked out into a thunderstorm and had to walk back to our hotel in the pouring rain (it did feel good but that whole lightning thing is a bit freaky). After sleeping on the whole mess I woke up less angry, more confused and laughing about the whole situation because this stuff only seems to happen to me. It’s kind of humorous in a dark and demented way. I should have known better than to hope for anything less than a total shitshow. At least the concert was fun!
My friends and I consoled ourselves on the ride home by saying at least we had fun with each other and the pics were still a highlight, no matter what happened.
I’m the literal hot mess in the blue dress on the end (in my defense the wet spots on my dress are from ice cubes I realize now that cooling down via that method was not one of my wiser choices in life), one of my friends is the girl in yellow next to Donnie. My other friend? She’s next to Danny. Don’t see Danny? He was on my left… and him AND my friend were cut out of the image. I’ve edited this picture for clarity FYI if you want to see how bad image originally was and the other images are, go here and type in nkotbappix for the password. Also, if you are an attendee and want me to try and edit yours, let me know.
Needless to say, I’m pretty peeved. Not only is the picture terrible due to the humidity, MY FRIEND IS MISSING. This isn’t the only person from the night that was cropped out, there are a few others this appears to have happened to last night. I feel so terrible for her and so sorry this happened. I got her this birthday gift hoping it would be a fun night. I called VIP Nation to complain and they told me to “send it in email” and hung up on me. So I sent my email but here’s my blog to go along with it. This is unacceptable and just sad. I would like a refund and I think that all attendees last night deserve one as well.
Were you a fellow comrade in sweat? If so, I am so sorry this happened. 🙁
I can’t even recall how I ended up over at Pintester but when I did I pretty much fell instantly in love. It’s exactly the kind of blog I would have if I were to do one solely based on what happens when you make things from Pinterest. Because we all know that rarely do they turn out as advertised – usually ending with a lot of swearing. I love the swearing and Cocknails. This week she asked everyone to attempt ONE pin that has been on your Pinterest for a while and blog about the experience, calling it The Pintester Movement. I decided this was the perfect time to finally give one of these pins a whirl and see what happens. I hit up my “Tips and Tricks” board because that is usually where the epic fails beyond food reside and I wasn’t let down. I can’t be the only one that hoped a “this will save you HOURS of time and is so easy” pins really work can I? Since I was feeling a wee bit lazy, I decided to try this pin about a super easy way to clean your microwave.
I knew this was going to be interesting when I saw that the site had no more instructions and I had to rely on the words with the picture. However, it didn’t seem like it would blow up and it looked easy to test.
Of course, while I thought I had a cup of vinegar I didn’t, I had a little over a half cup. Crap. So I did a 50/50 ratio with what I had. Please excuse our groutless tile, someday my husband may actually get on that.
I decided to still roll with the 10 minutes from the pin.
10 minutes later…
Yeah, not a whole not of difference right? While things were a bit steamy there really wasn’t a huge amount of steam. I got out my paper towels and wiped down what I could but there wasn’t a huge improvement.
f nothing else I guess this pin won since it got me this far I decided to actually do it for real and finally cleaned out the icky goo.
Make sure you head on over to see what other people have done with their own Pinterest challenges on The Pintester Movement!
By far my favorite of all the beauty boxes is the Ipsy Glam Bag, especially for the price of $10! Each month you get 5 samples in a cute makeup bag that’s usually themed for the month. I’m getting so many makeup bags that I’m not sure what to do with them all (anyone have any ideas?) but they are pretty darn cute. So far the products have been really spot on as well and not nearly as many biffs and misses as Birchbox (who finally did send me the rest of my samples BTW).
The Ipsy May Bag included the following products for a total value of $38.68
Juice Beauty Reflecting Lip Gloss, Fig $15.00
Zoya Nail Polish, Blu $8
Nume Finishing Serum, $4.83
Yaby Concealer Refill, Buff $4.85
Pacifica Bronzing Body Butter, $6
I love lip gloss so the Juice gloss is a win, even though the texture is a bit strange. I am a HUGE Zoya fan so was excited to see they were in this months bag but creme colors aren’t my thing and I’m not sure I’m loving this light blue, I may send it on to someone else who will love it more but it’s still a win in my book. I’ve got the Nume serum before and it works so that’s a-ok. I used the concealer the other day and was happy to find it matched my skintone perfectly and I was able to toss it in the Glam RX thing from last month’s bag so it isn’t just floating around aimlessly in my bag. I heart Pacifica and am looking forward to trying the body butter and seeing if it works, although from what I can tell it’s just shimmer and not a lot of color. I also REALLY liked this months bag and am hoping to find some kind of use for these suckers in the days to come (shall search Pinterest).
Oh, have you heard about my most favorite monthly subscription box yet????? If not, hold onto your hats because it’s a doozie!
A few months ago I stumbled onto this one when it was in its second month. I honestly wasn’t sure if it was going to last but so far I’ve loved every month, even if some aren’t my cuppa so to speak. So, what is this thing of goodness of which I speak? Julibox is a monthly subscription box with two different cocktails and most of the fixings each month. You read that right, COCKTAILS TO YOUR DOOR! If you are like me, I like my cocktails but I’m so woefully ignorant of any cocktail to order when at an open bar that isn’t vodka and cranberry juice. Which is fine but sometimes you want to change it up a bit. The Julibox has been amazing for that and the bonus is that I am trying drinks I’d never tried before. So far my biggest surprise hits have been the Magi Sour and the Polish Mule. This month I think is going to be my favorite yet as it includes bubbly!!!! Have I mentioned what a sucker I am for bubbly?? I can’t wait to get my hands on some strawberries and I think that will be my drink the night of my birthday! I’m going to try the French 75 before that though, I can’t wait that long to dig in.
When: Monthly (mid month)
Includes: Alcohol and some fixings for 2 drinks of each of the 2 cocktails of the month. Generally includes everything but juice, fresh ingredients and items on hand (i.e. sugar).
The Good: COCKTAILS!!!!!!!
The Not-So-Good: Cost is a bit high and it’s not a value box like some of the others but IMHO it’s worth it to try new drinks. You also have to be on site to sign.
Referral Bonus: None. Probably has something to do with the alcohol thing.
It’s another busy month for me, so I fail at blogging epically. Whoops! I’ve been what seems like around the world this month with a wedding, lots of portrait sessions and a trip to Canada and back. Whew! October isn’t done yet and I hear we’re ending it with a snowstorm. Cue the whining from all! 😉
I have been mad stalking my shipment of this month’s Pop Sugar Must Have Box after the delightful surprise last month. I was kind of worried because I heard some complainers saying this one stunk compared to last months but I was very happy with mine when I opened it (I avoided spoilers because I’m weird like that). I actually may have wooped a little and done a jig. While I realize that the Pop Sugar Must Have Box is a bit more than most boxes at $40 or so a month (use REFER5 for $5 off!) I feel OK with it since I LIKE everything in it for two months in a row. Lately with Birchbox, I’ve been lucky to like even one thing in it. I keep meaning to pull the plug but I wanted to find something to fill its place. I’ve also signed up for Ipsy and so far I love it more than Birchbox so I may finally be kicking that habit. I may have added a few other boxes in my quest like the Julibox (COCKTAILS!!), Glossybox and Julep Maven. I’ll be adding those to the reviews now that I have time to actually breathe with my job (well, when I get them). I also plan to start throwing in more book reviews! 🙂 Yes, this blog is a mixed bag, just like me. Ha!
Back to the Must Have box… while it doesn’t have the high value that last month’s had, it’s still awesome and I loved it a lot.
The October box included the following products for a total value of $121.44 (listed in order of excitement)
J.K. Rowling – The Casual Vacancy Hardback Book $35
OPI Pink of Hearts 2012 $14.95
Red Flower Japanese Peony Petal Topped Candle $38
Clear Scalp & Hair Therapy 3 oz Shampoo & Conditioner $3
Dylan’s Candy Bar Gummy Bears $4
Pirates Booty Aged White Cheddar $1.50
Crescent Moon ExerSocks $24.99
I’m a huge reader and although I’ve not read Harry Potter (yes I know), I am excited somewhat to read this new book by JK Rowling. Since it’s free, I’m definitely giving it a whirl. I’m OPI-obsessed so the Pink of Hearts is fantastic and straight up my alley, and since I didn’t have to donate to the Komen fund (I support cancer charities, just not Komen) I’m happy to be given it. The candle smells AMAZING but I definitely wouldn’t buy it at near $40 for that small of a candle! The shampoo & conditioner is perfect for me since I have long and thick hair – it’s NEVER fun to get the tiny samples b/c I need more than that to wash my hair! The gummy bears look divine shall be munching on those during trick or treat!) and the Pirates Booty does too. The socks are… socks. I’ll wear them but probably not buy them again. Unless they totally wow me breathless. I’ll come back and update with reviews of each items as I use them 🙂
I am a reader. I read a LOT. I read so much that I am in Amazon Vine and I’ve often passed up pretty awesome gadgets and gizmos so that I could get a copy of a favorite authors new book. One of those such books was Where We Belong by Emily Giffin. I read this while on vacation and enjoyed the read but didn’t love it. For me, the works since Something Borrowed/Something Blue have not reached the bar set by those works (especially Something Blue) however I did appreciate that this novel did not glorify cheating, which the majority of her other works do. I handed the book off to friends to read during the trip and we all agreed that it was a decent beach-esque read. I now regret urging others to read this novel.
Around the time of the launch of the book, Emily had started posting and tweeting people urging them to buy her book to make her number one. The first post kind of annoyed me because it made the fans seem like they were not good enough if she couldn’t reach #1, then her follow up post when finding out she was in fact #2 was equally as awful. She had another post or two lamenting about it on her Facebook and on her Twitter and it frankly annoyed me to the point of commenting to friends that it was pretty diva like behavior and that there seemed to be an epidemic of crying over being second place (the Olympics were taking place at the same time). It really turned me off and I was already starting to be sorry I had reviewed her book for Amazon and possibly helped even one person decide to purchase this novel.
This week, I noticed in my feed a link pop up to her Facebook talking about her husband being in a comment war against a reviewer on Amazon and how it wasn’t a 5 star review. I don’t know why, but the whole idea of authors or people acting on their behalf (and I consider a spouse to also represent the author) and attacking reviewers make me ill. Perhaps it’s because I am a part of Amazon Vine (have been since 2007) but I take reviews seriously. I’ve thankfully (up until now!) never had to deal with an author attack due to my less than perfect review but I’ve been reading more and more cases of this happening online. I rolled my eyes and shook my head and continued on with my work. Then a following post appeared talking about how her husband was still at it, as if the first post didn’t get enough attention. At this point I decided to head over to see what the heck kind of review could start this kind of nonsense.
Well… that doesn’t seem bad at all, certainly not attacking the author, tearing the book apart or even remotely spiteful. Not at all what I was expecting to see. I then continued to read to see what Emily’s husband had been saying and my jaw hit the proverbial floor.
*screen capture thanks to Book Goggles as it’s since been removed by Amazon*
One should note that the initial reply from Giffin’s husband was the same day as the review and the activity on the page was slow at best until Emily posted the below on her Facebook. She did not link directly to the review (although it was linked in the comments by a few of her fans) but it was pretty easy to find, I did so without difficulty.
*screen capture thanks to Pocketful of Books as it has since been deleted*
Now the claims are that she didn’t know about how awful her fans were being and that she never directed people to Amazon to attack (screen capture of this coming later in the post) but both of these comments got me to go looking for the review as well as many other fans. Many I should note on her FB page were telling her this wasn’t a good idea and she should delete her posts, so not everyone was raising their proverbial pitchforks against the reviewer but one quick look at the comments on the review showed that an overwhelming amount of people were saying pretty awful things against this legitimate review.
At this point I had had enough. I couldn’t stand the thought of the fact that my review could even get one person to buy her book so I decided to change the review. I’ve done so in the past when my mind has changed on a product or book and never have had an issue with this in the least. I changed my review from 4 to 1 star and stated why I did. The novel was okay but I couldn’t in good faith support an author whom supports the kind of behavior that was going on with the initial 1 star review. Since this item was a Vine product, I can’t simply delete the review. I hit save and figured that while I was only one person, at least I’m not longer supporting an author whom encourages this kind of behavior from her husband and fans.
The first few comments surprised me – I didn’t think about my review being seen but I had forgotten about Emily pointing people to the one starred reviews, which would mean that mine would come up. Crap. I then went and looked at the comments on the other low starred reviews and saw that already her fandom was attacking. I girded my loins and prepared for it to get ugly but initially, the support was mostly positive. Then someone must have alerted Emily to the post as I was shocked to see my review pop up in my Facebook feed being blasted by Emily.
In the comment section, they were pretty quick to find my review and post it and the shitstorm on my review comment page ensued. Granted, Emily did sort of attempt to call off the dogs but in the same respect she also pointed out my review and posted her feelings on my changing the rating (again, from 4 not 5 stars) which she is entitled to. If she didn’t encourage bullying though, she would have deleted my review being linked on her page immediately like she did with any comments that supported her. By this point there were a few people saying this needed to quit and the comments her fans were leaving were quite horrible. At this point Emily’s assistant decided to jump in and defend Emily as well leaving quite a few comments that were pretty shocking coming from someone that represents the author on a professional level.
*screen capture thanks to Pocketful of Books as it has since been deleted*
This is just one of many comments that Katie left on my review (all she or Amazon has deleted). However, at this point there were still quite a few people thinking that it was pretty crappy what was going on and supporting me and my right to my opinion on the book. Then more crap hit Emily’s Facebook.
*screen capture thanks to Pocketful of Books as it has since been deleted*
Personally there is no way that a 1 star review falls under my category of “most unfair things” but I guess that she should consider herself blessed for leading such a charmed life. Here Emily directly is linking to my review with her assistants plea for fans to comment and defend her against “these” attacks. Personally, I don’t view my review as attacking the author so much as stating my opinion but I gather that is subjective so I’ll take the “attack” hit. However, the initial review by AvidReader does not remotely come close to attacking Emily in the least. With a battle cry like this, Emily’s fans got even more rabid in their attacks against me and her assistant (CrimznTider) continued to do battle. Most of these have been deleted by Amazon.
So now I’m a stalker, bigot and an infant. There’s more mudslinging but I think this gives you the overall tone of the kind of comments that I was receiving from the fans of Ms. Giffin after she posted on her Facebook a link to my review. There was also tweets from her account as well regarding this.
*screen capture thanks to Pocketful of Books as it has since been deleted*
Finally about 2 or so hours after this whole debacle started, Emily finally attempted to call the dogs off on Facebook.
In short order her husband also offered up his apology to me on my review, I did not see this placed on AvidReader’s review however and she’s the one that truly deserves it.
FINALLY! Although the apology is not perfect but I appreciated him finally apologizing and it did seem to slow (NOT STOP) the attacks on Amazon. At this time Emily’s assistant finally stopped her postings as well. Around 11:00PM I received 3 different calls, all blocked, with one leaving a “delete your review!” voicemail and the second stating that I should just kill myself for being such a miserable person for attacking poor Emily. REALLY? And yes, I’m talking with the cops about this already. I mean that’s Misery kind of fan territory. Not long after I heard a loud bang on my deck and I was legitimately scared that it was a gunshot. Far fetched maybe but this was quickly sinking into WTF territory.
I went to bed last night shaking my head and completely baffled and amazed at what a turn this whole day took. When I woke up I decided to check Emily’s Facebook page to see if she’d posted any sort of apology or whatnot but I found this instead.
I just… I don’t… WHAT? She has also deleted all of her postings regarding the reviews, which is probably a good thing on her end. I can’t say that I’ve enjoyed this remotely and it’s pretty unfathomable that you would even begin to entertain the idea that someone would ENJOY the shitstorm I’ve endured over the past day. For the record, Emily posted a link to my review directly asking for people to come support the attack against her. That’s not saying gang up but it was all but spelled out
Here’s hoping this dies a quiet death. I for one will never read another Giffin novel and I am happy to hear that others are doing the same.
Pipe dreams, they are lovely things to have aren’t they? The only apology I have received from her camp is on my review, she has not reached out to me other than on that platform and that was her husband, not her, unless the account really is hers. Again, I don’t deserve what happened to me because I dared to change a review. I also will not be bullied into changing or deleting my review because that’s what Emily thinks is best. If she didn’t want the drama to continue, she would stop making posts such as these. Sure, I’m adding to the fire now by posting these screen caps but damnit, I’m furious. I think most would be too if they were in my shoes.
I started getting negative comments on this blog post and low and behold, Emily is making vaguebook status updates. It’s interesting how I am always able to figure it out when things have hit her Facebook when there is an uptick in negative feedback.
Also for those asking, yes I have been to the police station today regarding the voice mails and cyber bullying.
After thinking on this whole disaster this evening, I wondered how I could turn this into something positive. I wished there was a charity for me to donate books to children that are bullied as a child I always lost myself in books when I was bullied in school. I still do it as an escape from reality. Since such a charity doesn’t exist (anyone want to start one?) I’m donating to the Megan Meier Foundation instead. Megan Meier is the girl who killed herself after being cyber bullied on MySpace, a story which still saddens me. I donated $614: a dollar for every downvote I received (278 – is that a record?) as well as AvidReader (78) and another dollar for every comment on the review (201 for me, 57 for AvidReader). Granted, not every comment was bullying but I don’t care to go in and figure it all out as reliving those comments is not an ideal way to spend my evening.
I hope this is the end of this, I really do.
My review has been removed from the book page of Where We Belong. You can still access it by clicking on the direct link but it is “gone” for all intents and purposes. I did not do this, it was on Amazon’s end of things.
UPDATE #5 (December 30, 2012)
Ha, you thought it was all done. Well, it is but I thought that instead of a new blog post, I’d finish up the “resolution” to this whole debacle as well as finally answer the question of what happened to AvidReader.
• Amazon took down my review of Where We Belong completely, however it still counts toward my Vine reviews so I didn’t have to review it again to stay under my percentage goals. Huzzah. Although, reviewing it again could have been interesting as I’m sorry but there’s no way on earth that my debacle wouldn’t have influenced my views in the least. I know some don’t approve but in the same regards I tend to give authors I adore a kinder/better review based on my love of them so IMHO it can go both ways.
• I never had a direct apology in any form from Emily. The only apology I got was from her publicist, whom did eventually contact me but it wasn’t on her behalf, more or less was trying to get me to take down this blog. I refused and he was polite about my refusal. They did release a somewhat public apology in The Atlantic.
• Despite accusations to the contrary, AvidReader is *not* some stalker of Emily Giffin’s, nor a psycho. Instead she is a college student who used an email she doesn’t check during the school year for her Amazon profile. When she got home for the holidays and checked her not-often-read email, she was surprised to see what kind of fuss became of her review. She contacted me to thank me for supporting her and was glad that she missed all of the drama. I’m SO glad to hear from her and know she is OK. I was concerned but hoped something like this was the case.
• Finally I want to say a huge thank you to the authors and fellow reviewers that reached out to me during this mess. I was stunned, surprised and humbled by your overwhelming support. I’ve gained a lot of respect for you all and I’m glad to know that some of my favorite authors are on my team and I’ve also discovered a few new ones that I want to support. It was a crazy ordeal and I couldn’t have asked for kinder people to be in my corner.
In June my husband and I went to NYC to photograph a wedding and enjoy a few days in the city. Originally I hadn’t planned on renting a car but since the wedding was in New Jersey with a lot of travel between the getting ready location and wedding venue, we decided to rent a car to make things a bit easier so we didn’t have to get a taxi or try to navigate public transportation with all of the gear. Originally I had rented a car through Enterprise but decided to give Hotwire a shot on a whim at the last minute to see if I could get a cheaper rate as I was balking a bit at the $400+ rate for the 5 days. I thought it was lucky (ha!) that I ended up “winning” a full size car for $200 for the 5 days – half the price!
The day of our arrival we got to the Avis location at LaGuardia airport without incident. Check in took forever as there were few people working and many people waiting. After a bit of a wait we finally started to get checked in, waiving their insurance as our car insurance as well as credit card both have coverage for rental cars. When we were done checking in with the woman who was not very friendly, she told us where to find our car and said the keys were in it. I said that’s it? and her reply was that was it and to give the paperwork she handed me to the gate guard when leaving the lot. We walked out into the lot and saw the car – a Ford Fusion. My husband is pretty anal about taking pictures of any damage he sees on rental cars before we drive off so he took a picture of a minor scrape on the bumper that had a red paper dot nearby before we left the lot. The gate agent asked for the paperwork, which we handed over and he gave us back our copy and we left. Never once did he – NOR the lady checking us in – ever mention we were supposed to do a walk around with him for the car. Typically I’ve always had the person checking us in do this but often there are places that don’t even do that due to being understaffed and I’ve never had an issue.
We drove the car very little during our stay. We drove to New Jersey to our hotel for the early part of our stay and drove to the bride’s parents house twice (rehearsal and day of the wedding) and then into NYC to the Waldorf where we stayed and used public transportation for the remainder of the trip until returning the car. There were no incidents and the car was never in any danger of being damaged nor was it damaged during our use of the vehicle.
When returning the vehicle to the LaGuardia location, I asked the person who was checking cars in, Derek, what I could do about the fact that I had paid for a Full Size car but was given a Standard car. He immediately got an attitude and said that he didn’t know about where I come from but at Avis a Fusion IS a full size car. This got me more irritated as I had checked with their website online their car grades in case I was mistaken and it plainly states on their site that a standard car is a Ford Fusion or similar. When I mentioned this Derek got even more upset then goes, well what do we have here – and starts in on the scrape on the bumper. We quickly informed him that we picked up the vehicle like this and he said that we hadn’t. We again insist that we hadn’t done the damage and had pictures to prove it and he asked if the gate agent had gone around the car with us. When we said no, he told us we had to pay for the damages then – unless we had purchased their insurance. We then had to go inside and fill out paperwork stating the incident where I stated we did NOT do the damage and that we had photographs to prove it. At this time (thank god) my husband went outside and took more pictures of the car, with the damage matching up to the picture from his FIRST picture the day of pickup. Despite seeing this, the manager still made me fill out the report. It took well over an hour to do all of this and we almost missed our flight. I was furious about not only the horrible way we were treated by Derek but by the fact that they were trying to rip us off.
Yesterday in the mail (which I got today as I was working yesterday), which is 5 weeks after the incident, I received in the mail a packet from Avis stating that I owe $304 for the damages done to the bumper which I am responsible for. Furious doesn’t even COVER it. Included are images they took of the damages, which now includes a rather large scratch that was NOT there when we dropped off the car when this whole mess started. Thank GOD my husband went back out and took pictures when they started up with this nonsense because we wouldn’t have a leg to stand on, AGAIN, if he hadn’t. There was $205 in charges for the repair of the bumper and $99 in fees for admin and loss of use. I am planning on contacting a lawyer tomorrow as well as following up with a body shop to get an estimate on the charges. I will update this as I hear more.
Talk is cheap so they say and the proof is in the pudding, right?
The picture of the damage to the rear bumper when we picked the car up. This image was taken at 6/14/12 at 12:54PM, our check in process started with Avis per their paperwork at 6/14/12 at 12:49PM.
This is a full size crop of the damage from the image above, the same damage we would later be charged for doing to the car, despite having proof we didn’t do it.
A copy of our paperwork showing that even Avis knew we had paid for Full Size and were being given a standard sized vehicle for rental. Also note that the car in the agreement is NOT the car we received (we were given a WHITE Ford Fusion) and are being charged for damages on.
A picture of the car when I was inside filling out the paperwork regarding the damage and arguing my case. Note the insert showing a full crop of the damage on the bumper that is identical to the damage on the car when we picked it up. The date and time of this image is 6/19/12 10:14AM.
This picture is included in my bill for the repairs done to the car for the damages that they are claiming that I did. Notice the scrape below the circular sticker that was NOT in the image above upon our return and also notice the date of the image – 6/20/12, one full day AFTER we returned the car.
The full bill for the damages.
The breakdown of the damages to the car and the repair work done.
UPDATE 7/30/12 @ 9:30AM: I just got off of the phone with Peter from the Claims department and he’s the first nice person I’ve dealt with at Avis during this entire mess. He said that it was good that we took pictures and seemed surprised that when the pictures were shown to Derek and the manager that they still held us accountable. He also agreed that the red dot near the damage seems to indicate that they knew there was damage even though there was nothing notated on the car’s history. I emailed him the pictures and he said so long as things all match up with what I am claiming they will write off the bill against me. Fingers crossed!
UPDATE 7/30/12 @ 10:45AM: They closed the claim! *happy dance*
About 6 months or so ago a friend turned me onto the magical world of Birchbox. For $10 a month you get a variety of samples of beauty products – usually new ones but sometimes they are old favorites. I love trying new products (I’m a product tester for Amazon) so this was straight up my alley! The first couple months though I have to say they were ho-hum boxes. A few good things but mostly meh. After that though they started getting good and since then I haven’t been disappointed. Last month’s “Teen Vogue” box was a definite hit with a twist band hair band, full size Essie nail polish, a sample of Kate Spade’s Twirl perfume, a beauty blender (I am already asking how I lived so long without one!) and more.
This month I think is another hit! Each month has a theme of sorts and this month is “Natural Wonders.”
Here’s what the box looks like when you open it up from the postal box.
The box is simple but pretty and very sturdy.
When you upen it up you will find the card describing the month’s theme and a letter from the Birchbox team with the flipside telling you about your products.
I was taking these pictures as I opened the box so I was good and didn’t flip because I wanted to be surprised.
All of the pretty pretty products!!!!
From L to R what the products are and the prices.
Wonderstruck Taylor Swift. $49.50 – $59.50
I’m surprised that none of these products are crazy expensive. Generally there is at least one product in each box that is pretty high end and makes you love to try it but then you love to hate it because you don’t want to buy it! LOL. I love being able to try a variety of face creams because my skin is sensitive and I have the craziest randomest allergies EVER so I never know what will make me break out in hives. So far my running favorite moisturizer has been Fix Malibu The Works. Amazing, amazing stuff. I’ve been testing out some others but I may be going back to this as my go-to full size.
Since I literally just got this hours ago I haven’t tried all of the products but as a self confessed lip balm junkie I dove right into the one included and I have to give it a thumbs up! I do like it, there isn’t much of a taste, the smell is divine and it seems to last pretty long. No hives or blisters either which is a huge relief after my lips broke out in blisters after the Jouer Lip Enhancer which I was SO excited to try! It felt amazing until the blisters :(. I also have to say Wonderstruck smells amazing too. It reminds me of another perfume though and I can’t place it! It’s driving me mad!
I can’t recall when I finally picked up the Outlander series and began reading it, but I want to say in was 2000 or so. A friend whom is also an avid reader had told me about the series and it piqued my interest as I’ve always loved time travel novels. I think it all goes back to my love affair with Christopher Pike so I’ve always loved anything with a touch of fantasy in it. I remember going into Walden Bookstores and having a dickens of a time locating this novel because I was under the assumption it was a romance but it was filed with sci-fi. I don’t miss those days of scouring book shelfs trying to find a novel (or waiting to get the next in a series ordered in to your store!). Thank god for Amazon and Kindle. I digress. When I picked this book up (and the next 2 in the series) I was a bit intimidated by their immense size. This is NOT a small book by any means. I am a fairly fast reader but I even was a bit overwhelmed by the mass of this book. However I quickly found out that the pace is so fast you never feel like this book is dragging.
Outlander is the first novel of the series and sets up the framework quite nicely but I also feel it could easily be a stand alone novel. Her later novels in the series do leave you hanging a bit at the end but I’ve always loved how this novel finishes and doesn’t leave one completely in the dark. The series is currently up to 7 books and the next will be released next year (which I am anxiously awaiting for as the last ending was a cliffhanger). If you start this series, make sure you have time eked out in your reading schedule because I almost promise you that you will not want to stop at one.
This series follows Jamie, a Scottish Highlander from the 1700’s and Claire, a time traveler from the 1940’s. I will try not to spoil too much for you (a HUGE pet peeve of mine when reading online reviews) but I will say there are a few other people that the story involves as the series progresses. When someone told me what this book was about I kind of rolled my eyes thinking it’d be too over the top but I must say this is one of the best written fantasies I’ve ever read. The time travel in this book is completely believable and makes sense in a way. Since I love history, I also enjoy how Gabaldon intertwines history with Jamie and Claire. It’s hard to describe but trust me when I say it’s well done and you’ll feel like you were there alongside them for much of the major events.
If you like Outlander, you also may want to check out Diana Gabaldon’s Lord John series which is a series of novels about a minor character from the Outlander series (none but The Scottish Prisoner involve Jamie but he is referenced here and there). These novels are MUCH quicker reads than their Outlander brothers. I also would recommend Sara Donati’s Into the Wilderness series as well. There are a few minor characters that are in the Wilderness and Outlander novels and they have a lot of similar elements (I believe the authors are friends). This series just wrapped up last year and I was so sad to see it go. That being said, it’s one of my favorite endings of a series ever.
I am not much of a candy eater, which is ironic because my Dad was a total candy addict. I go through spurts – that usually coincide with the letters p, m and s – where I’ll eat a few bites of something but generally I’m a potato-chip-junkie and I pass over the candy. We still have a bowl of Halloween candy left! It’s kind of funny, anyone that comes to our house always hits the candy bowl because the good stuff is always still there. It’s not like most houses where the only candy left is the crap you would only eat after the good stuff is taken or ingest after the age of 70. Honestly, I don’t even know why we have a candy bowl since neither of us ever eat it. LOL.
However at Easter I usually pick up a few choice bags of candy. Cadbury Mini Eggs are the one thing that I adore and will sit and eat the entire bag of if given the option (and lack of willpower). I also like jelly beans. I think the jelly beans are related to memories more than like though. My Dad had this hilarious way of eating jelly beans. He’d eat them in color order. He’d start with his favorite color (red) and work his way down from there, in order, until the bag was only pink and white jelly beans. This was the good ol’ Brach kind – this was way before they fancified jelly beans. Every time I see a bag, I think of Dad. So I picked up a bag of the Starbust “FaveReds” jelly beans because a) I went to the store hungry, b) I was sick and c) I was hungry. I’ve had them on my desk since then and munch on a bite or two every now and again – typically when I’m hungry and waiting for the hubs to get home.
Friday I was hitting the sugar lows waiting for the hubs to get home from work and I figured I’d eat a couple bites of jelly beans to tide me over until dinner. I took about two bites and somehow swallowed the suckers nearly whole. Of course they went down the wrong pipe and I coughed them up when they hit my lugs. Let me tell you, that was a fun feeling! I then got to reswallow the whole mess and felt the scraping – again! – the entire way down my throat. Oh, my god. It burned, it hurt and it brought tears to my eyes. Then, I got the lovely taste of iron. Yes. I managed to slice and dice my throat on two jelly beans.
Meanwhile, my husband’s friend Paul decided we should all go out to dinner so wanted ME to make reservations. So I had to call and gasp out our reservations. My throat bled for about an hour and that dinner?? I don’t recommend following the jelly bean incident up with spicy sausage.
I finally can swallow easier today but it still feels sore. I have a feeling though I’m going to be teased about this one for years. Already my husband is saying. “you are the one that nearly died on a jelly bean.” Great. LOL
After my Mom died (the main cook in the house unless it was cooked on the grill) I was somewhat concerned about what dinner would be like. When Mom was sick generally our meals consisted of take-out or frozen meals. However I was stunned when it turned out that my Dad was an awesome cook – MUCH better than my Mom. Mom’s cooking was okay but to be quite frank, there are few meals of hers that I miss (I DO miss her potato soup though, yum). Dad turned out to be an amazing cook and I’m still kicking my own self for not getting him to write down more of his recipes. I really miss one of the most simple meals of his – hamburger gravy over mashed potatoes. I’ve found a few recipes but none have quite hit it. Anyway, one of my favorite recipes of his is his meatloaf and it’s often the meal I make to wow guests. Most people – my husband included – turn their nose up when you say “meatloaf” and start grumbling like Randy did in “A Christmas Story” but this meatloaf will change your mind! I also tend to make this meal when I’m missing my Dad. It sounds weird but it makes him seem closer whenever I make meals of his.
This was my first experience with the step-by-step recipe thing so I apologize for the suckiness of the photos. It was dark and storms were rolling through so the light was just not great but I was on a mission to take pictures of this so I persevered. Then the card got corrupted so half the photos I took are missing. Fun fun!
Assemble the cast of characters. Here we have the extensive ingredients that I promise you anyone can get a hold of. Salt, pepper, dry mustard, bread crumbs, tomato juice, hamburger, onions, ketchup, brown sugar and eggs.
Personally I go full bore with it all and screw the fat content. I have tried to make this “healthier” with turkey burger and it just didn’t taste right.
As far as substitutions, that’s your own perogative, just don’t come slamming me for bad meatloaf when you didn’t use anything listed LOL. Those reviews always crack me up on food sites, well I did this this and this different and it tasted like crap so I’m giving you one star! Hilarious.
I use premade breadcrumbs in a can but you can use your own homemade kind if you have that kind of patience or cracker crumbs. I’d probably nix the salt if you use cracker crumbs with salt on top.
I’ve also used V8 in lieu of tomato juice and it’s been fine.
Preheat your oven to 350. I always forget this but thankfully the oven doesn’t take too long to preheat. Oops.
Mix together hamburger, bread crumbs and juice. If you are pansy about getting your hands dirty/germs you may not want to read further but after trying a few different utensils I discovered that using your hands to mix the meat is the easiest way. Just wash them please?
Once done smashing this all together, it should look like this. Again, apologies for sucky pictures.
Next beat the eggs together (if you need pictures on this you’re screwed… and kind of scaring me) and dump them into the mixture along with the salt, pepper and diced onions. I buy prediced onions because I’m allergic to onions and turn into one big hive if I attempt to handle them and god help me if I try to cut them (my face swells up). My Dad used to use one small yellow onion and I decided that’s about 1/4 cup or so. Use your best judgement. Again, mash with hands or pansy it with some sort of magic stirring stick.
Oh and yes, even though I’m allergic to onions I still put them in this. Cooked onions don’t bother me as much as raw so I put up with the discomfort for this meal.
Toss the meat mixture into a loaf pan. You shouldn’t need to grease it. It will look like this. Apologies about my back splash, it’s a mess. Hubs and I can’t agree on what to do for the back splash so for the past 5 years it’s remained plain paint which doesn’t wipe off so easily. One of these days, he’s going to come home and I’m going to have tiled it all while he was at work. If you’re curious he wants only slate tile, I want slate + tumbled glass detailed. I will win. Someday.
Toss that sucker in the oven for 1 hour.
Next is the good stuff. I double the recipe because a thin glaze doesn’t cut it for us, if I could I would just eat the glaze. You’re going to combine ketchup, brown sugar and dry mustard to make this good stuff. I use a fork to combine because it makes it easier to get the lumps out. Lumps are OK though and I usually don’t manage to get them all out when I’m using brown sugar that isn’t new.
Pull out the meatloaf which will look disgusting and be bubbling. No matter what the fat content is on the meat, there’s always excess fat. If you wait a couple minutes it usually will start to congeal and I scrape some of it off. That’s as close to “diet” as I get with this stuff.
Slap on the glazing. Keep in mind this is a double batch so if you go with the recipe amount you won’t have this much on top. Put it back in for another 30 minutes.
Then the house starts to smell REALLY good.
Make your side dishes and hopefully time everything right so that everything is done around the same time.
I rarely do that element well.
Then pull out the loaf and cut into slices. It will be VERY moist so it may crumble a bit if you don’t let it sit for 5-10 minutes. I rarely can wait so mine is always a mess.
There is my plate of food! See what I mean about the meatloaf falling apart? I did have a picture of the meatloaf COOKED in the pan but thank you mr Sandisk for failing me so you’ll have to deal with this shot instead, sorry!
1 1/2 pounds hamburger
2/3 cup bread crumbs
1 cup tomato juice
2 large eggs, beaten
1/8 teaspoon ground black pepper
1 teaspoon salt
1/4 cup onion, diced
3 tablespoons brown sugar
1/4 cup ketchup
1 teaspoon dry mustard
1. Preheat oven to 350 degrees.
2. Combine meat, breadcrumbs, and juice by hand until well combined.
3. Add eggs, pepper, salt, and onion and combine until mixed.
4. Put in loaf pan and cook for 1 hour at 350 degrees.
5. Combine brown sugar, ketchup, and dry mustard.
6. Place on top of meatloaf after 1 hour of cooking and cook for an additional 30 minutes.
7. Double check for doneness and enjoy!!!
I am a *huge* reader, have been since I was a child. I honestly can’t remember the last time that I was not beginning, in the middle of or ending a book. Even before I could read words I remember carrying around picture books and even some non picture books and leafing through them before I fell asleep. I remember a whole world opening to me though when I learned to read and I found out what the words were in “The Monster at the End of This Book” (no, no one read to be before bed, that’s another story for another day). It’s a rare night that I don’t at least read ONE page of a book prior to falling asleep. I think it has a lot to do with the fact that both of my parents read a lot so I grew up thinking reading was essential to life.
Two years ago, I decided for my 30th birthday to buy myself a Kindle. I had been kicking around the idea but I just did not like the design of the original release. However after seeing a friend’s Kindle while on vacation, I decided that I would LOVE the new one and preordered it immediately upon returning home. I really was worried that I would not like it compared to my real books and that I would find it lacking but the idea of being able to download the next book in a series on a whim rather than waiting around for a) it to be delivered or b) it to be in stock at the local bookstore is what sold me in. I like instant gratification and too often I would think of a book I’d love to read but have to wait days or weeks to get my hands on it.
It was love at first read.
Now I am proud to be a Kindle owner (I now have the Kindle Keyboard which I purchased last year) and I have been known to rebuy books that I own already in paperback because I love reading on the Kindle that much. It’s SO easy to hold. I toss the sucker in a Ziplock bag and can take it to the beach, pool or read it in my tub. I have a cover that has a light attached to it for easy night reading.
My newest found love that has to do with reading is Goodreads. Are you a member? if so, we should be friends. I have a problem sometimes remembering if I’ve read a book or sometimes I forget details from a book and it’s driving me crazy. I’ve been keeping track of books I’ve read since 2008 on here and it’s been fun to not only see how much I read in a year (130 or so, give or take) but to also read reviews and see what my friends are reading. It’s kind of like Facebook for readers.
I doubt that I’ll ever have any sort of theme here but I think I’d like to share books and book reviews here from time to time. I read just about everything depending on my mood. I do tend to stay away from fantasy and sci-fi though (I’m one of those that have not read Harry Potter yet) but it doesn’t mean that I won’t rule it out. Of course I’m always game for a recommendation so hit me up if you’ve got one!